Today, at 5pm pst, folks all over our fair nation tuned in to hear my interview with Tristan Taormino on Sex Out Loud. We talked, academics, being on set, mainstream vs. queer porn, how men are under-represented in porn and what I plan to do about it. If you missed it, here is your second chance to hear all about it. XXO
Cover of my new Vivid-Ed movie, The Expert Guide to Pegging…revealed! The Expert Guide to Pegging: Strap-on Anal Sex for Couples stars Dylan Ryan, Wolf Hudson, Jiz Lee, Mickey Mod, Jada Fire, and Christian. This is not your mama’s pegging video, that’s for sure! The cast is awesome, their interviews and chemistry fantastic, and the scenes are the hottest strap-on anal scenes I’ve ever shot! And it hits the streets on Valentine’s Day!!
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Remember that super fun event called The Fleshbot Awards? A lovely girl named Georgia Blue took photos at the Njoy after party. Here is evidence of me and Jiz Lee enjoying our Njoy toys as well as my semi-tipsy self putting on someone’s clogs and getting down with my Dutch self.
I was Driven By Boredom to make naked in a kitchen. Thanks to Igor for the documentation of said shenanigans, go see the rest of his master craft and my love for carrots at www.drivenbyboredom.com
It’s International Fisting Day! Fisting is by far my favorite sex act. The feeling of being full, everything stimulated… It’s really fantastic. Here is a little demo shot with one of my favorite co-stars @SinnSage after we finished our shoot today. Happy IF Day to you and go fist safely and consensually! Xxo
It’s actually really hard. Hard to see the people you love, yearning and reaching and wanting something so deeply and standing beside them as they don’t quite reach it, time and time again. I am just the friend. I am just the confidant. The supporter. But it’s hard because I love my friends and I wish for them the joy they wish for themselves. And in my world, in this time and in this place, that joy is the joy of carrying a life into this world. You see, I’m gay. So my friends are not xy, my friends are xx or yy or some other “unnatural” combination that sends them to sperm banks and fertility clinics, to Kaiser for treatments, to Blue Cross to beg for coverage for the procedure that could bring about a baby. We can’t just get pregnant. We have to pay for it, in dollars and in moments and in tears and deals made with God or Buddha or our brother’s friend from college who is super down to donate because he doesn’t think he wants to have kids ever. We have to make it happen, as a manifestation of our love for each other or as a call to fruition of the lives we have always wanted. There are no unplanned pregnancies, our futures always have at least one person driving the ship. And so because we have to manifest, it’s an undertaking. Of choices and months and temperatures and tests and peeing on sticks and checking cycles and looking at baby pictures of men we may never meet. And I am just the friend. It’s not my time, it’s the time of my friends and the people I love. And so I pray, I light candles, I make bargains with the Universe, I focus my yoga energy when I’m in class, sending my downward dog into my best friend’s womb, hoping that it pushes the swimmers in there to swim harder. I think about the people I love and their love for one another and I focus my anger into beams of positive juju that will hopefully give them the life that I sometimes feel heterosexual people take for granted. It’s hard. Not for me but hard in general. Because I want them to get pregnant. I want for them what they want for themselves. And when they don’t, I cry a little each time. Because I grew up in a family where my mom and dad told me that i got made because they loved each other so much that I exploded from their love. Because I see how queer people love each other and I want them to be able to make their love make more love, more loved people. Because my friends would make amazing parents. Because there are so many unloved children and because all my friends want is to share their love with a child. That’s the nature of friendship, the nature of love. Love should beget love. Queer people should get to marry, get to say in front of people, “This is my person”. It’s a human right. And it’s a human right to be able to make a baby, especially one from love and an explosion of caring. So that’s why I cried tonight. That’s why you saw my tears in your kitchen tonight when you told me you were pregnant. Because it’s hard. And because I love you. And because you will be an amazing parent. And because I have always wanted it to work for you the way it gets to work for everyone. And to all my friends in the struggle, I love you. And I will keep praying. And when someday, I hold your babies, I will remind them of what their parents did to make them. Out of love.
[NSFW] The Smitten Kitten Tutorial Series Is Here—Plus, Extra Credit You Definitely Want to Check Out!
I directed three new sex-ed shorts—on cunnilingus, fellatio, and the G-spot—for the fabulous feminist sex shop and site The Smitten Kitten. They star me, Dylan Ryan, and Danny Wylde and you can watch them for free here. I’m very proud of how they turned out, and can’t wait to hear what all of you think. In addition to some solid information, there is super hot sex—er, demonstrations—by Dylan and Danny. This was the first time these two had ever worked together, which is always a totally mystery going in. As it turns out, they have insane can’t-keep-their-hands-off-each-other chemistry. We shot so much good stuff that we had plenty left over. So, in addition to the sex ed shorts, you can purchase a full sex scene, “Dylan + Danny: Extra Credit,” on demand. Photos above are by Clare from The Smitten Kitten who was on set.
One of my favorite scenes of all time. Big love to Tristan, Danny and Smitten Kitten.
deepbitch asked:
Do you really enjoy the gangbang vids you do with Kink. I hope, so because I find them incredibly hot - they are go to get off material for me. I would lose interest if you weren't totally into it! Please be honest! I only want to wank to folk having fun!
I love what I do, gangbang vids included. I’m at an awesome place in my career where I don’t take work that I won’t enjoy. Everything you see is authentic, genuine enthusiasm or fear or excitement or arousal. I am in the moment, present in what is happening and 100% there because I want to be. XXO
I love people coming up to say hi and tell me that they like my work. This is Jess who is awesome. I signed her chest, right above the Babeland logo. Sweetness.
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